The Beat goes On My Numero Uno #1~ Austin Simmons

Today I made the decision to make this the last dance for A Simmons the Canadian Contractor in Nigeria. I guess at some point in the Match I looked up his email address and it was registered to a "Hayden" I can not say as I remember there being a last name. I asked Austin about the address being connected to "Hayden" and he became defensive. I see him for what he is. I found him irresistibly attractive, intelligent and fun to play the game with. On this being our 6 month anniversary of the inception of this match. I feel that I have invested too much time, energy and effort into the match. So I wrote the following good by letter to Hayden:

HI,

Hayden, It's been an amazing 6 months of communication with you but alas parting is such sweet sorrow. I have other things to do right now that require my immediate attention. I want to find a Real Love.. Our exchanges have been amazing, and so real. I see it for what it is~ I believe they refer to it as Cat fishing- I usually do not allow myself to become so financially invested in a good match of wit. But somehow I do enjoy the the A listers. There are so many things I really like about you. You are smart, intelligent and I have enjoyed our time spent doing this. I have to laugh when i go to WU they always warn me about Nigerian cat fishers, and ask if i know you personally. I say I do, so i do not draw attention. Its not my intent to be hurtful, just enjoy you for the spirit of the moments. I am not a stupid white woman, with you this got very personal. I never allow myself to open up and share Like I have done with you. That is the difference I should never let things get on such a deep and personal level. So that is part of the reason why its time to go.

There is no Love in Life, only people that want to use each other for personal gain. And that is fine, its just not with me. I allowed myself the eccentricity of paying out for the continuance of our connection. Everytime you start a sentence with "AM" it reaffirms what I know to be correct. How did you keep so composed? in the midst of my silly songs, the bantering back and forth. I always wanted to be in love with my own.. i had heard stories of women who had there guy come clean and a real relationship formed. I knew you did not love me. Its ok- its all apart of it i guess all the loving words, txts and emails.. But you have to admit I am pretty good at writing.

I think it's time for both of us to move on. I will miss you though~ I have to admit I let my heart get sucked into your beautiful charm. It will take sometime for me to get over this i have to be honest.

You can not invest heart and soul into a match without some sort of residue. So I have the 2 other C list guys that are absolutely no fun. So I may cut those short too. So as this match comes to a close I think my time is better served in the game of reality. I met a couple of OK guys of POF we will see. I do love the way the A list cat fishers really are attentive, and they are so eloquent in the messaging. I love the exchange of romantic messaging.

We so much for alas parting is such sweet Sorrow:

As your dominant I insist on the 24 hr no contact.. i will text you immediately i get a calling card tomorrow and will call you when you are fully awake in the morning and done with your morning chores..

We need to have a heart to heart discussion.

My heart beats for you and every part of me longs for your feel and touch

I really wonder what this.. said heart to heart discussion will entail. I am so excited to hear back to see if he comes clean.

2/16/2016 More on A Simmons: The beat goes on/game on dude.

The plead/request for money is getting more forceful. You see he wants me to cash advance on my credit card and deposit to a B of A account. I said i will not do that. Even if I did he would have to pay back my account and the funds clear before I do any such thing. I let him know he has never done anything for me so what's my motivation in doing this? He's crazy if he even things I will comply with his retarded request. He is getting increasingly impatient and says he will need to get firm with me if I do not comply. I just keep reminding him he does not do anything for me..

This match has been going on for at least 6 months and I would have thought he would get to the bottom line sooner. When i get nasty he seems to back off. and I use the operative phrase which I can not post.. yields his infamous 24 hour no contact.. I may need to pull that out as my trump card today to back him off some. I swear I have broke up with him bunch of times and he comes back for more. I love it~ I am sure there is a threshold that the scammer has to yield some sort of money from a match he is playing..I do not know how there pecking order works. I would be curious how their management structure works. hahaha ~

This is now going on 9 months and Austin is finally making his appeal for $5000 to get home to the US. He said his business is finished and affairs are in order to leave however he needs $5000 to get home. His appetite to appeal to my love and affection has grown as he is hoping sweet talking me will award him the money he desires. I will string this on a little longer however I know the end result is he will have to be ex communicated as I will not be giving him $5000 dollars.